There is so much pain on this earth ,we cannot imagine the sufferings of an individual.Even my own people do not know my sufferings.

Whenever I am trying to create something new to satisfy someone I have to sacrifice something of my own.Be it an object,money or my time.

Doing some good acts for the satisfaction of someone whom I love is a matter of joy.

Everyone is busy trying to do something special for someone and in trying to do that we are spending our invaluable time .

If we all have done something special for someone then why are we unhappy?

When our happiness depends on someone’s attitudes or aptitudes then it’s merely expectations .

When our expectations are not fulfilled we break very badly .We don’t expect anything from a beggar whom we give a few cents or a dollar because we don’t do anything extraordinary.

We go beyond our capacity to make our loved ones happy .Sometimes we even forget what is legal and what is illegal and that sows the seed of despair.

Don’t go beyond your capacity to help your loved ones ,I mean in terms of legitimacy.

In relationships and affairs be clear with your capabilities or capacity.If you have to break your heart then do it in the initial stage.

You will find options and time to remake things.Only the creator forgives and forgets your shortcomings and helps you to find substitute.

If you sin for your children ,they will be cursed and they will not be able to know that .Finally when you will think you have done enough for them and it’s time for you to sit and rest they will dump you not because they don’t love you but because you had sinned for them .

Don’t blame them for this.

Nothing breaks a strong human being so badly as sin.It is sin that makes a person weakest at the age of forty it is chastity that makes a person strong at the age of ninety.

Sin doesn’t allow a person to die even at the age of ninety eight because you have to repay back whatever you have purchased using your credit card .

Once I had come across a beautiful quote -‘Sin is like credit card enjoy now and pay later’ I am sorry I don’t use credit card so I am not cock sure about this quote .

Anyway it’s time for us to heal so the best option is to stay away from what has broken us and that certainly is sin.

We cannot afford to live the life of criminals on this beautiful earth .We have to be happy with our goodness not with a huge bank accounts.If you have enough then praise the Lord and share with others .

If we don’t have enough wealth then let us try to be spiritually rich .We will know when and on which day we will die a happy death.

What is better;to have enough wealth and die any where and in any mishap or to have what we require and know when and how we will die?

It’s really very challenging to know every move of our enemy and every mishap of our lives. (even our death)For this we need nothing but sanctity,chastity and piety .

Try this ,this is more difficult than going to the moon or mars and in trying to achieve this ,it will enable us to stay away from what breaks us and will heal our invisible wounds of mind and soul.

Thank you very much ,take care.ūüíó


Human life means giving and taking ,this is the most important activity on this earth.

What we give and what we take is a secondary thing but our survival depends on this theory of giving and taking .

Barter system is the other name of love .We must not stop giving to remain alive because we don’t keep a plant which doesn’t flower.

We are fond of dogs because of their faithfulness.Dogs are ready to lay their lives for their master.

Even an ailing dear one is taken care of because he /she is wise and will help us with invaluable ideas or knowledge whenever we require it .

The question is ;why do we look at the standard/status of a person when everyone is giving something ?

Why is someone very important and someone very small ?

That depends on what you give and whether it’s of any use or not.

To give the best either you have to be the best or you have to remain with the best .

He went on: ‚ÄúWhat comes out of a person is what defiles them. 21 For it is from within, out of a person‚Äôs heart, that evil thoughts come‚ÄĒsexual immorality, theft, murder, 22 adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly. 23 All these evils come from inside and defile a person.‚ÄĚ-Mark 7:20-23

What comes out of a person is what defiles them.Then let’s vow to bring out the best which will refresh and rejuvenate this earth.

We all are working hard for our offspring and the most important thing they require is a new Earth devoid of hatred.

A general message for people of all denominations ,”Do not do anything that will make your God small before the others.Always try to prove before the others the fact that we worship a mighty God,who is powerful and is more happy with our good works than our lengthy prayers”.

What I give to others also speak of the person whom I worship.

If I am rude or indisciplined ,if I look down upon the other human beings who are also the children of God then I certainly belong to Lucifer.

To be a blessing to all we have to suffer every moment ;physically,mentally and economically.

When I have to go on giving means I have to deprive myself of better treatment,better food,better clothes,better standard of living .

People look down upon me for my condition but I am a representative of the Lord hence I must bear good fruits so that others will be able to learn to copy the same for a happy life.

If you have given to a poor person in times of his need then you have certainly felt the joy of being God’s children and you have also felt the happiness of giving .

So keep giving good things to all those who need so that the world will know you as the children of God.

Thank you very much .Take care.ūüíó



And as he was going forth into the way, there ran one to him, and kneeled to him, and asked him, Good Teacher, what shall I do that I may inherit eternal life?-Mark 10:17

As billions celebrate Teachers Day in India,the thought of a perfect teacher has come to my mind.

I am sure you can guess it correctly because many of us will wonder at his style of teaching even today.

First of all he rebuked the person who called him Good Teacher because that is the secret of a teacher’s success.

Humility enables us to go on learning till our last breath.Humility draws the attention of more people than Pride.

The Mighty one didn’t only preach but practiced all that he preached.He taught his followers to wash the feet of others by doing it.

In the history of Mankind we have never ever come across a teacher like Jesus.He was so powerful that he commanded the storms to stop.        

He commanded the evil spirit to depart from a human body.He commanded dead people to rise to life.

Yet he remained silent when he was scourged,He was beaten and kicked by ordinary and powerless human beings.

The most important question of our time is ;Why did God die on the Cross?

A perfect teacher not only preaches but also demonstrates.

When it was a question of saving the whole humanity ,it was necessary for God to die as the cunning Satan wanted a huge surety for our bail.

Those who are acquainted with the terms and conditions of Judiciary will understand it better.

In the garden of Eden the Satan had used a single bait to trap whole humanity.

This pandemic has taught all of us a lesson that no one is vulnerable so living a life that Jesus had spoken of is really worth living and also worth dying.

If you know for sure that you are a friend of Jesus then you have nothing to fear .He glorified life and also death.

Today I realize that I have a lot to learn to be a perfect Teacher.I cannot demonstrate all what I teach and that is the cause of so much suffering on this earth.

By his teachings he showed all of us what kind of a place paradise will be.

What kind of people will inherit eternal life?

Thank you very much.Take care.ūüíó

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You have searched me,Lord,
    and you know me.
2 You know when I sit and when I rise;
    you perceive my thoughts from afar.
3 You discern my going out and my lying down;
    you are familiar with all my ways.
4 Before a word is on my tongue
    you, Lord, know it completely.
5 You hem me in behind and before,
    and you lay your hand upon me.
6 Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
    too lofty for me to attain.

7 Where can I go from your Spirit?
    Where can I flee from your presence?
8 If I go up to the heavens, you are there;
    if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.
9 If I rise on the wings of the dawn,
    if I settle on the far side of the sea,
10 even there your hand will guide me,
    your right hand will hold me fast.
11 If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me
¬†¬†¬†¬†and the light become night around me,‚ÄĚ
12 even the darkness will not be dark to you;
    the night will shine like the day,
    for darkness is as light to you.

13 For you created my inmost being;
    you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
    your works are wonderful,
    I know that full well.
15 My frame was not hidden from you
    when I was made in the secret place,
    when I was woven together in the depths of the earth.
16 Your eyes saw my unformed body;
    all the days ordained for me were written in your book
    before one of them came to be.
17 How precious to me are your thoughts,God!
    How vast is the sum of them!
18 Were I to count them,
¬†¬†¬†¬†they would outnumber the grains of sand‚ÄĒ
    when I awake, I am still with you. -PSALM 139:1-18

Whenever we think of the good aspects of a human being ,we wonder at our own creation.

The mighty Lord has not only made us wonderfully but his protection over us is simply startling.

Even a convict behind bars is taken care of .The child who has lost its parents in the event of this pandemic is also taken care of .

The Lord alone can command anything or anyone on this earth and in heaven to come to your aid whenever you are in trouble.

Whenever we help some needy or poor people out of our kindness we bring out the quality of our heavenly father that which we inherit from him and only then we become his true children.

When the earthly objects ,birds of the air,the animals¬† notice your good works they understand that you are God’s friend and the gang of devils who walk around during the day to harm others notice your charitable works they decide to avoid the path on which you tread.

Anything that is famous or expensive is always taken care of .Even a robber takes care of beautiful golden ornaments .

It is up to us to tell the world that we are fearfully and wonderfully made and our attitudes and aptitudes prove that we must be taken care of by all of you because we are here for a purpose .

Thank you very much .Take care.


It’s a lovely topic to write about because we all dream of good things.

Who doesn’t require good things?There’s none who would say that he/she doesn’t need it.

What matters most is the work put into a task to achieve something really good .

Interesting fact is that almost everyone is striving hard to achieve something good.

I find amazing posts on different niches written by beautiful people ,some really inspiring and some are truly delectable (recipes)

Some bring the mighty creator very close to our heart.

Some have made writing a profession,its worth billions .Some are far behind for lack of hard work,lack of thoughts and of course lack of wishes and aspirations.

How do I know it ?I know it because I have the experience of being a slow blogger.

I had been busy multitasking,focus had never been on blogging.I hardly spend an hour to prepare a post .I have been very inconsistent.

Don’t look at me to achieve good things look at the big ones.Be on the ground but let your eyes (sight) be high up on the peak of the mountain.There you will find very few people standing with the colorful flag of success .


Thanks a lot.Take care and God bless.



Either make the tree good and its fruit good, or make the tree bad and its fruit bad, for the tree is known by its fruit. 34 You brood of vipers! How can you speak good, when you are evil? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. 35 The good person out of his good treasure brings forth good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure brings forth evil. 36 I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak, 37 for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.‚ÄĚ Mathew 12:33-37

The power of language is indeed a great blessing for all of us .It enables us to share our thoughts ,sufferings and happiness.

We are overwhelmed by the utterance of a blessing by an elderly person because we know what it means .

We also ignore any such blessings from an evil person because we know that a person who has control over his /her tongue can only bless us.

We all know the art of opening a heart with sweet and kind words and similarly we also know that what kind of words will shut the mouth of a person.

We know that a pipe which carries the dirty water to the gutter will never ever be able to give us clean drinking water.

So for a fruitful prayer we must ensure the fact that we must not use our tongue to curse, use slangs or use words which humiliate others .

I am sure that the number of people who are praying today has increased but there are very few people on this earth who can assure us of a fruitful prayer to resolve our problems.

The relationship with the Almighty is more important today to have our prayers answered when we need it.

Reciting short prayers whenever possible is more important than reciting lengthy prayers once in a week. Reciting short prayers regularly creates a strong bond with our loving God.

Pray even when everything is fine ,thank him for his generosity and praise him for a while where ever you are.

Convert the objects and thoughts of sins put forward by Satan to tempt you into causes of short prayers.

For example a beautiful person should remind us to thank the Lord for his lovely creation.

Vulgar pictures or objects should remind us of the fact that many have died early for being fond of it.That a little pleasure or joy will spoil all our past prayers and mortification and we have to start again from the beginning.

Addiction of drugs also shorten our lives and deprive us of our true blessings of a happy and prosperous life.We invite diseases and destroy our health.

Some sins are deadly hindrance to our fruitful prayer life.

So let us bless our tongues so that we will be justified and not condemned.

If you are praying daily and trying hard to live a pious life then keep two glasses of pure water on your alter.Everyday after your prayers take the water of glass A in your clean hands and say a prayer of blessings for a few days. Next take the water of glass B and curse the water for a few days and then check what is happening to the two glasses of water and let me know if possible.

Thank you very much .Take care.

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The Mighty One, God, the Lord,
    speaks and summons the earth
    from the rising of the sun to where it sets.
2 From Zion, perfect in beauty,
    God shines forth.
3 Our God comes
    and will not be silent;

a fire devours before him,
    and around him a tempest rages.

7 “Listen, my people, and I will speak;
    I will testify against you, Israel:
    I am God, your God.
8 I bring no charges against you concerning your sacrifices
    or concerning your burnt offerings, which are ever before me.
9 I have no need of a bull from your stall
    or of goats from your pens,
10 for every animal of the forest is mine,
    and the cattle on a thousand hills.
11 I know every bird in the mountains,
    and the insects in the fields are mine.
12 If I were hungry I would not tell you,
    for the world is mine, and all that is in it.
13 Do I eat the flesh of bulls
    or drink the blood of goats?

14¬†“Sacrifice thanks offerings¬†to God,
    fulfill your vows to the most high,
15 and call on me in the day of trouble;
¬†¬†¬†¬†I will deliver you, and you will honor¬†me.‚ÄĚ

16 But to the wicked person, God says:

“What right have you to recite my laws
    or take my covenant on your lips?
17 You hate my instruction
    and cast my words behind you.
18 When you see a thief, you join with him;
    you throw in your lot with adulterers.
19 You use your mouth for evil
    and harness your tongue to deceit.
20 You sit and testify against your brother
¬†¬†¬†¬†and slander your own mother’s son.
21 When you did these things and I kept silent,            
    you thought I was exactly like you.
But I now arraign you
    and set my accusations before you.

22 “Consider this, you who forget God,
    or I will tear you to pieces, with no one to rescue you:
23  Those who sacrifice thank offerings honor me,
¬†¬†¬†¬†and to the blameless I will show my salvation.‚ÄĚ –PSALM 50

Dear loved ones it is very important to consult the holy book to conduct all the activities of life smoothly .

At present every thing seems to be in a state of topsy turvy and if we don’t consult the statutes of the holy book then we will be in a soup.

I individually feel that we have to learn the true teachings again and again for a better life.

It is very important to know the reasons which bring trouble in our lives .Rationalism has brought us to such an extent that sometimes we forget the simple rules of life which turn the table upside down.

In the above extract we notice two verses in bold one is verse 20, ‘you sit and testify your brother and slander your own mother’s son’

I have noticed the division of brothers and sisters in families in our region as a common matter.So far charity is concerned one brother is wealthy and the other is very poor.

This is a grave sin of our times.I can’t be happy when my loved ones are unhappy .

I don’t dare to revolt but the fact is that we have to show a very clear picture of our faith to the non believers so that it looks attractive to those who are in despair and are abandoned .

You will never find an unemployed person following another unemployed .

They try to follow the employed ones.So long our brothers and sisters across the world are unhappy our teachings and preachings will have very little impact.

If God is our loving father then we must find ways and means to lead the poor and the down trodden to a path of prosperity.

A prince never fails to help the helpless subjects of his Kingdom.If Our God is the mighty King of this universe then we are capable of helping the helpless.

When we cannot do that then we must admit that we are not worthy children of God.We are not princess and princesses.

If we have not achieved that power to help others then we must realize the fact that we are offering wrong sacrifices to the mighty one as we have read verse 23 ‘Those who sacrifice thank offerings honor me……’

Sabbath is important ,we need to visit the Churches regularly to keep our relationship with the Lord strong.

It is not enough to read the Holy Bible ten times a day and visit the church during Easter or Christmas.

Why do I say this ? I say so because It is not enough to keep a photograph or an album of my mother with me and then send money to her every month and visit her once or twice a year.

She won’t be happy with it ,she wants my presence more then the money .

Please ponder over it and then you can tell me where I am wrong.

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When many of us were just kids in the 70s we lived a happy life without many of these gadgets available in the market today.

Parents worked only during the day and looked after the financial matters with whatever they earned .They didn’t even think of as to how they would look after so many children with so low earning because abundant grace surrounded their lives.

Their faith carried them through the storms of life as they tried their best.Their focus was to have honest children,healthy children.

They were blessed with what they required and today we are blessed with more than what we require and so we are struggling with a single child.We are not happy with our modern lives.

It is very difficult to train a child to be God fearing because of the menace of technology.

The world is well equipped with all that one requires to be pious or impious.A boy or a girl has the option to have a Bible app in his device or a special pornography app or gaming app.

The question is ;what is he/she going to choose ?Death or life?I,as a father of an adult son has to be cautious with my activities .

I believe that what my son is going to be in future depends on my activities.

But if you cause one of these little ones who trusts in me to fall into sin, it would be better for you to be thrown into the sea with a large millstone hung around your neck.-Mark 9:42

The above verse clearly tells us that the loving creator is not happy with his creation.He is condemning those who are a hindrance to the piety of innocent people.

The materialistic world is simply alluring for us and its beauty and attraction is like the forbidden fruit of the garden of Eden .

The happiness of the creator only assures us of a happy and prosperous life.If I don’t allow the innocent grown up people to be honest and pious then I make the creator unhappy hence I become the cause of my sadness.If I spoil the children of others then certainly someone will spoil my son.

So don’t allow the world to corrupt you .Stay away from the temptations of life .A life of sin is a warning of sudden death.Covid is nothing but our own creation for our destruction by legalizing sins .

Stay pure like snow and you will be able to visit hell like a tourist and return home in time .The devil fears an honest and chaste person .

I could not post on Sunday as a good neighbour of mine a strong ,stout and healthy man died of Covid.

Thank you very much for your support and prayers.Take care.



The most important aspect of human life is freedom.The happinesses of a person solely depends upon  freedom.Those who are behind the bars for having been sentenced to life time imprisonment understand the true meaning of freedom.

Freedom is like a fleshy fruit which we all love to taste frequently but if it is misused then we will have to eat foods of someone else’s choice and we¬† will have to learn to forget our fleshy fruit.

Its our life so we all have the freedom to chose how we will use it but if we want a life of our choice then we have to prioritize our duties.We can make a list of what’s really very important to materialize our dreams.

Here’s an example of a list.

1.Start the day with prayers of thanksgiving because we don’t give¬† anything to a person who is not grateful to us hence our gratitude for a healthy life is very important.

2.Stay away from people with negative attitudes.A rotten apple spoils all the good ones in the basket.

3.Don’t think or discuss matters which are not your concern but utilize that time in completing your task so that you can have enough time for siesta.

4.Don’t look at the life styles of very wealthy people because you don’t know the mental status of such people ,I mean if you are looking for peace then look at the poor farmer who works and earns daily and spends all ,then he sleeps when the sun sets and wakes up happily on the next day.He doesn’t grumble or worries late at night.Hence he has a disease free body.

5.Don’t try to copy others who are too busy to be rich and if you do then you are likely to invite the diseases of theirs.

6.Wealth accumulated by dishonest means can never ever be used for honest purposes.

7.If you know that whatever riches you have belongs to your only child then remember the fact that the consequences of your evil activities also belongs to your only child

8.Give what belongs to the King so that you don’t invite unexpected trouble into your own life.

9.Last but not the least if you are planning to go to hell please don’t misguide those who are trying hard to find a path to Paradise.If you do then I am sure he will facilitate you to enjoy a hellish life on this earth.

You can add many more like this and try to have a king size life for yourself.

Thank you very much.Take care.


Hello dear ones,I have to change for my own satisfaction because I can’t be like anyone else.I am what I am so I must be a little different from the others,hence I have thought it differently.

I shall post spiritual matters only once in a week because I feel spiritual matters are truly sacred and it must receive due respect.

I personally feel that I must always carry my love and respect for my Lord with me and at the same time I have to ensure the fact that I can discuss or share matters of spirituality in a favourable atmosphere(congenial) and not everywhere.

I avoid going to places where I am not respected so It is my first and foremost duty to keep in mind the fact that my Lord is not a thrown away article .

I feel that I bring more abomination to my Lord than respect by sharing the invaluable message with everyone.

Can anybody invite the honourable President or the Prime Minister of a country to any place ?No,because he/She is respectable person so the venue matters a lot.

Hence after pondering over the matter I have decided to post less of Spiritual matters and more of worldly matters.

In today’s world billions follow Christ but only a few love and help the followers of Christ.I have felt it very often that is why Jesus is liked and shared only when a like minded or a friend posts it.Above all the intervention of the Holy Spirit is required to like Christ.

I have realized the fact that true love is with only a handful of people and most of it is in the holy book and not on this earth.

I know of people who are ready to help needy and poor ones with financial support of huge amount but are not ready to give a holy Bible free of cost to a person even when he has a almirah full of New Holy Bibles which costs not even two dollars .

Have you thought about it ? I know of disciples of Christ having huge library of books on different spiritual matters but are not ready to share a single book even though I have told them that I shall deposit the price of the book before taking it for a few days.

Actually that is only for them not for a common person like me.I am not at all disheartened but I am telling you facts so that you can prepare yourself for the worst .

Even when I know that Jesus Christ is my Savior and Lord and yet I can’t like his teachings posted by an unknown person that means I need a thorough cleansing .Would anyone do that if someone would post his/her mother or father’s picture?

Certainly not,in that case we would simply be elated to like it and be overwhelmed by that person’s courtesy.

Very recently one of my good friend had approached a preacher of a Church for his son’s admission and the preacher had shown him the broken windows of the Church and had told him that he requires a lot of money to replace those windows .My friend understood his language and returned home with no hope of help.

Actually the broken windows are never changed because those are the real baits for earning .Jesus is no more a Lord to many but has become a commodity.You like it or not it’s a fact.

I really need to change for my happiness ,I can’t make everyone happy.I can write well only when I forget about the critics and the world .So I need to take my stand even when other people feel bad.

Thanks a lot for your support and prayers.Take care.ūüôŹ

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Why People don’t Talk about their Trauma

**This is a re-blog, originally posted from the ‚ÄúDon‚Äôt Lose Hope‚ÄĚ site. I found this piece so insightful as to why talking about trauma with others is difficult. For me, the biggest issue has always been negative feedback. It‚Äôs been most hurtful when I‚Äôve shared my trauma with someone I care about, and that person [‚Ķ]

Why People don’t Talk about their Trauma